Info card · Depression and burnout
Don’t argue with an anxious thought — close it like a pop-up window and keep your mind busy with what’s happening right now.
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You’re working, and suddenly it pops up: “What if I missed something?” A minute later you’re far away from the task.
Thoughts keep spinning about yesterday’s mistake or what will happen a month from now, and there’s nothing you can do about them right now.
Anxiety washes over you in line, on the bus, before a meeting.
How it works
Anxious thoughts are almost always about the past or the future: what went wrong and what might go wrong. Your link to the here and now is perception: what you see, hear, touch, taste and smell. When your attention is busy with your senses, it’s harder for thoughts to take it over completely.
Fighting a thought is pointless: arguing only keeps it on the screen. It’s easier to treat it like a pop-up window on a website: you notice it, click the X, and get back to what you were doing. The window pops up again — you close it again. That’s not failure; that is the practice.
A technique from the author’s practice. There is no separate research on this particular form. In its logic, it’s close to the grounding and attention techniques used in cognitive behavioral therapy.
If anxiety comes in attacks — with a pounding heart, shortness of breath, fear of dying — and keeps coming back, see a doctor: it’s important to rule out physical causes. If there is an immediate danger to life, call 112.
If things feel very bad right now or you are having thoughts of death: 112 — immediate danger to life, around the clock; 116 123 — emotional support, 10:00–24:00; 116 006 — victim support crisis line, around the clock; Eluliin 655 8088 (Estonian), 655 5688 (Russian) — 19:00–07:00. Emergency help →
Stop going over the same thoughts with one honest question, and get back to what you were doing.
Info cardGive your mind a simple task while your body walks, so anxious thoughts don’t keep going in circles.
WorksheetGet the anxious noise out of your head, sort it into tasks, important thoughts and spam — and turn chaos into a plan.
If this topic feels familiar, a consultation can help clarify what is happening in your situation and identify practical next steps.
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