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Thought record: situation — interpretation — reaction

Separate the facts from your interpretation, test an anxious thought and find a more accurate way to see the situation.

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Thought record: situation — interpretation — reaction

When it helps

Situation 1

Something happened and your mood dropped sharply, though the reason seems small.

Situation 2

One thought keeps going round: “I’ve ruined everything”, “something is wrong with me”.

Situation 3

You want to sort out what really happened and what anxiety added on top.

How it works

Why it works

What upsets us is not only the event but how we read it. A thought flashes by in a split second — “he’s unhappy with me”, “I’ll fail” — and we take it as a fact. The thought brings a feeling, and the feeling brings an action: going quiet, avoiding, making excuses.

A thought record slows this chain down. You write down what happened, what you thought and felt, then test the thought against the facts. The goal is not to think positively but more accurately. The more accurate the thought, the weaker the feeling usually is and the easier it is to decide what to do.

How to fill it in

Describe the situation: facts only — who, what, where, when.
Write down the automatic thought — the one that hurts the most.
Name your feelings and rate how strong they are from 0 to 10.
List the facts that support the thought.
List the facts that don’t fit it.
Put together a more accurate thought — one you can actually believe.
Choose one small action and rate your feelings again.

See a filled-in example

Situation: Tuesday, 10 a.m. Yesterday I sent my manager a report. He read it and didn’t reply. This morning he walked past me.
Automatic thought: He’s unhappy with my work. I’m going to get fired.
Feelings: Anxiety, fear, shame.
Evidence for: He didn’t reply to my message. A month ago he criticized me over a deadline.
Evidence against: He often replies only when he has questions. He had a board meeting this morning. A month ago he praised my project.
A more accurate thought: His silence could mean anything: he was busy. If he has comments, I can handle them — I have before.
What I’ll do now: In an hour, calmly ask: “Have you had a chance to look at the report? Any questions?”

What it is based on

Research-informed

A thought record is a core technique of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), one of the most researched approaches in psychotherapy. It was described by Aaron Beck; the workbook “Mind Over Mood” offers a step-by-step self-help version. Meta-analyses support the efficacy of CBT, especially for anxiety disorders and stress. They tested CBT as a whole: the thought record is part of it, not a separate treatment.

A thought record is not a diagnosis and doesn’t replace treatment. If anxiety or low mood lasts for weeks or you have thoughts of death, see a specialist.

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